Dear Diary

In response to: "It's all over" 986 days old
by  [Visitor]

Hi,

Sorry to hear you are so upset.

I honestly think it is for the best. To say that you were having an argument with him about him having sex with his wife in your special place and then you had sex with him says it all.

He has really damaged your self esteem. You are better than that and you need to value yo more…

In response to: "It's all over" 986 days old
by Gumbanu [Member]

'My mum always warned me about guys like him - ones who say a bunch of bullshit to have their way with u, fuck u, and then dump u.' ... or ones that happen to be married? more…

In response to: "A quiet week....surprisingly!!!" 986 days old
by devilsadvocate13 [Member]

oi whats happening with the married man et al? more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 996 days old
by  [Visitor]

Hi,

Thanks for the email, I've sent you war and peace back!

Honestly, it will never work with him, just end it. Tell her straight not to phone you or get in touch.

I she does go to the police, if she is a psycho you won't be able to handle her alone.

Don't stick with it just because of her.
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In response to: "what a week!!" 998 days old
by  [Visitor]

The proof will be if he really spends valentines day with you....my guess is no.

Enjoy experimenting and don't have a guilt trip about doing Patrick twice as others have said it is a small sign that you are moving on and enjoying some independence.

RHT xx more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 1000 days old
by GoldCar [Member]

i know i have often considered getting a new number, but she also has my home number (no idea where she got it from) and i think she knows where i work (well she knows my work email, so all she needs to do is google it!). i know she does have the right to hassle me, but i'm not exaggerating or being ott when i describe her as a psycho!! more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 1000 days old
by GoldCar [Member]

his wife is 22. shes only 3 years older than me, altho she talks to me as tho shes so much older and i'm a little schoolgirl. its been like that a lot, where shes having a go at me and hes in the back, just chilling. and now u mentioned it, it is wierd and just wrong!!!! lol more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 1001 days old
by devilsadvocate13 [Member]

wow what a mess goldcar... been in a similar situation myself, and i know its very hard coz of all the hormones pumping but just dump and forget ! Its really not worth it girl !! more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 1006 days old
by  [Visitor]

Right,

BIN YOUR PHONE, NOW!

Move on forget him.

Not sure about Patrick, but don't worry about that now.

Just move on fast from huge!

Best wishes VB. more…

In response to: "My first entry" 1006 days old
by  [Visitor]

Hi,

I hope you get as much out of blogging as I have.

Best wishes,

VB
(I started blogging becasue I am a 33 year old man who is still a virgin, funny old world isn;t it!) more…

In response to: "what a week!!" 1006 days old
by whoknows [Member]

OMG!!!!! These two are really dragging you into their horrible little situation, I really think you should run, and NOW! That whole scene where you were arguing with the wife and he was there at the same time, that is just weird. I think these people have a nasty little dysfunctional relationship, and having you around gives them someone to blame i more…

In response to: "My first entry" 1006 days old
by whoknows [Member]

Oh dear, I really sympathise, it's a horrible situation.

However, I think that he's not going to leave his wife. This man has it made: his wife keeps on forgiving him, and now you have given an ulimatum (dump her by the end of the year, or you will dump him) and then not followed through, so he knows he has you where he wants you. Eas more…

In response to: "My first entry" 1012 days old
by  [Visitor]

Thinking of you tonight lady and so glad you have been able to write things down, it may just help you make the decision only you can make...

You obviously have some difficult choices to make but you don't have to stick around just because you lost your virginity to him. That's not a good reason, you stay with him because you are happy more…

In response to: "My first entry" 1014 days old
by Sian [Visitor]

Glad you have this to 'talk' to. Blogs are good at helping with hard stuff you can't face telling other people. I hope you can find a way through all this, it's an impossible situation to be in. *hugs* more…